my list of qualities desired, required, and admired...

-funny, makes me laugh
-nice to look at, makes me smile
-good kisser, makes my heart shiver
-driven... gotta be driven by something, for something, toward something... no use just staying in one place all the time
-a little crazy...
-not TOO crazy
-doesn't need a mommy... has a functional mommy already in his life
-good at talking. has an opinion, but also possesses the ability to actually change his mind when proven wrong
-good manners (see above re: quality mommy)
-nice to animals and people in the service industry
-not looking to borrow money from me... i'm not down to pay for any services
-makes me feel good. doesn't make me feel bad. and if by some chance, i do feel bad, he strives to make me feel better, and not worse
-can pronounce my name... including last name
-is not super terrified to meet my friends or family... little nervous, ok. but they're so nice, really nothin to be scurred of
-calls me back... getting back to me within a reasonable span of time is a sign of respect and maturity
-makes me feel sexy
-understands the concepts of space between two people... sometimes its good to get some distance, other times much better to get up close
-smiles a lot
-laughs at my jokes
-gives lots of hugs as needed
-isn't afraid to ask for help, cuz I do so love to be of help
-doesn't worry too much about the future, or waste time fretting about the past
-has nice things to say about past lovers
-supports me in my artistic endevours and helps in any way necessary
-embraces the differences between us... i may not be super enthused about the latest hockey scores, or the stupefying trends in sub-molecular physics, and that's just the way it is.
-makes an effort to make plans and do activities together
-is honest about his feelings, in general and how he feels about me specifically
-brings me water. that's it... can't have me getting dehydrated!
-optimistic about life, though a little jaded's ok... its a modern world after all

my love, its unconditional... of course.